#Relationship life choices quotes code
Not the code that only echoes imposed cultural values, but the one that tells us on a visceral level what to do.” It’s our work, our job, the most important gig of all: to make a place that belongs to us, a structure composed of our own moral code. Most of us have an invisible inner terrible someone who says all sorts of nutty stuff that has no basis in truth.” I hope you’ll be comforted to hear you’re not alone. “There’s a crazy lady living in your head. You’re going to have to carry the water yourself.” “This is not the moment to wilt into the underbrush of your insecurities. “I hope when people ask you what you’re going to do with your English and/or creative writing degree you’ll say: ‘Continue my bookish examination of the contradictions and complexities of human motivation and desire ’ or simply: ‘Carry it with me, as I do everything that matters.’ And then smile very serenely until they say, ‘Oh.'” You can mark your progress breath by breath.” You do that by simply looking it square in the face and then moving on. “Allow your acceptance to be a transformative experience. “We have to be whole people to find whole love, even if we have to make it up for a while.” On Life “The story of human intimacy is one of constantly allowing ourselves to see those we love most deeply in a new, more fractured light. If this were summed up on a bumper sticker, it would say: ‘Don’t own other people’s crap.’”
It’s about the person who is being unkind or jealous or petty or distant or weird. That behavior is so often not even about you. You don’t have to turn it into a big psychodrama about your worth. “If someone is being unkind or petty or jealous or distant or weird, you don’t have to take it in. We don’t dig or not dig people based on a comparison chart of body measurements and intellectual achievements and personality quirks. Some are smarter or funnier or fatter or more generous or more messed-up than you. Some of those women your boyfriend used to fuck have nicer asses than you. “omantic love is not a competitive sport. “The whole deal about loving truly and for real and with all you’ve got has everything to do with letting those we love see what made us.” Real love moves freely in both directions. No one will ever give you love because you want him or her to give it. It’s the best thing we have to give and the most valuable thing we receive.
I can only say you are worthy of it and that it’s never too much to ask for it and that it’s not crazy to fear you’ll never have it again, even though your fears are probably wrong. “I can’t say when you’ll get love or how you’ll find it or even promise that you will. Don’t let the man who doesn’t love you be one of them.” “There are so many things to be tortured about, sweet pea.
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